Jamie - My heart is so heavy and sad. Words cannot even express anything at this time. Your love story is so great and I have cried many tears wondering how I would handle if in the same position. You are handling it all with such grace. John is already proud of you but would be even more as he watches over all of you and the family. I pray by the hour that he will be located so you and your family can have closure to is a story so unbelievable that it is had to comprehend. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING that I can do for your. Even if it is just to talk on the phone or visit in person. My home email address is stacey.hartlage@insigtbb.com. I am sending you a huge hug as I am sure that you may need right now. Please keep in touch... ----------------------------------------- Stacey L. Hartlage Consultant - Key Accounts 500 West Main Street, 14th Floor Louisville, KY 40202 (502) 580-1584 - Telephone (502) 508-1584 - Facsimile (502) 387-9250 - Cell Phone shartlage@humana.com - Email www.humana.com