Jamie, You are very strong and sweet to tell us all that information. My prayers have been with you all this time and I pray that John will turn up to make the circumstances "more concrete." I've had a number of people come to me who knew that John and I worked out together in the fitness center most days. If Okay with you, May I make a flyer that I can post on the wall in the entrance to the fitness center with his picture, and your note? Let me know. You're in my thoughts deeply, Matt